Parents are the key...
Participation in youth sports can improve physical and psychological skills, fitness, build character, develop social skills, unite families, and provide enjoyable experiences for young people. However, the quality of these sporting experiences is dependent on the quality of adult leadership (including parents) in sport. Appropriate parental encouragement, support, and praise relate to higher levels of enjoyment and participation. However, unrealistically high parent expectations, pressure, and criticism have been correlated with increased stress, less intrinsic motivation, lower enjoyment, reduced belief in competence, increased dropout, low self-esteem and subsequent attrition.